 Flirting ca easily be misperceived and it is a tricky thing. For men it can be challenging to decipher flips of the hair, body language and smiles. Key to meeting women is to know when a woman is flirting so you can flirt back. Women are often very subtle in the way they flirt, so it is important that you pay attention to each movement, or word, gesture, waiting for that one certain clue.
Woman flirts with her eyes. She may spotted you across the room and then frequently glance your way with or without smiling. Women are shy, they will quickly look away if she notices you see her. In this case, the next time you catch her watching you, smile to her, followed by walking up to her and introduce yourself.
Women also flirt through smiling. This is a sign that she is willing in meeting you. Some women smile merely as a means of being polite, it is important to know which type of smile means flirtation. A closed mouth smile is likely just her being friendly, whereas a smile showing teeth, along with twinkle in her eyes probably means she is interested
If you are not paying close enough attention, a woman may go out of her way to make sure you notice her. Example, if in a nightclub, you may notice that she makes several trips to the bar or restroom just so she has a reason to walk near or by your table. If at a coffee shop, she may decide she needs to add creamer or sugar to her coffee on more than one occasion. Pay attention to these actions and as she passes by, smile.
Sometimes, women will also play with their hair, which is done both intentionally and unintentionally. In this case, you might see a woman twirling her hair with her finger, rubbing the back of her neck and then gently flipping her hair, and so on. This too is a definite sign of flirtation, her trying to get your attention while letting you know that she is interested in you.
Of course, body language is a huge indicator of flirtation. A woman may cross her leg toward you, allowing her dress to hike up slightly while exposing her leg. She may also twist her hair and pull it up, thus exposing her neck, which is considered very seductive. Other forms of body language include crossing her arms, which automatically creates more cleavage, rubbing her feet, etc.
Flirtation can be deceiving so typically men will sit back and watch for a while before making a move. Just remember, if you misread a sign as flirtation when it was not, learn from the mistake so you will be able to identify flirtation better in the next woman. Most importantly, pay attention to the details and once you are sure a woman is flirting, make the move to introduce yourself.
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