Dating Tips and Advice
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| Nov 18, 2008 |
| Unacceptable Flirting Behaviors |
Flirting is an art form it is something that takes time for both men and women to master. There are some forms of flirtation that are considered unacceptable. Flirtation is a highly valuable tool when done right, in the right situation and with the right person. But it can be disastrous when done in a wrong way.
Acceptable flirtation behaviors engage a single person flirting with another single or unattached person. This kind of behavior also involves flirting in a subtle way that lets the person know there is interest without being vulgar or irresponsible. For example, if a woman is sitting in a nice restaurant and notices a man she would like to meet, she could smile or gently touch his arm. These kinds of process in flirtation are fine.
The important thing to remember with unacceptable flirtation is that what is deemed unacceptable it will vary from one person to the next. Therefore, it is important to use good judgment based on each encounter. The finest way to determine if your flirtation is right is to toss out some general comments to test the water. When you see how the woman responds, you will have a much better idea of the direction to take.
Obvious moves in unacceptable flirtation. For example, you would never approach a woman and comment on her breast, weight, age and so on. Naturally, trying to talk dirty to be cool or flirtatious is only setting on disaster or yourself. There are some women may laugh at off colored responses but you can be sure they are cringing on the inside.
Also be careful with using touch as a flirtatious move. Once you have engaged in conversation and it becomes obvious that she is flirting with you or responding to your flirtation then simple touch on the arm is fine. However, there are some men feel it is okay to maul a woman who they do not even know. Again, hands off until you know the person or have clear indicators. For a while keep touching out of the flirting process
Unacceptable flirtation is common sense. You should move in slow, take time to talk and flirting by being friendly. With that, your chances of getting a phone number or even a firm date are going to be much better that if you dive in headfirst. Always thing of better ways before you leap and you will be fine.
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posted by Bedabs @ 11:21 AM  |
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| Nov 9, 2008 |
| Signs that Girls are Flirting |
 Flirting ca easily be misperceived and it is a tricky thing. For men it can be challenging to decipher flips of the hair, body language and smiles. Key to meeting women is to know when a woman is flirting so you can flirt back. Women are often very subtle in the way they flirt, so it is important that you pay attention to each movement, or word, gesture, waiting for that one certain clue.
Woman flirts with her eyes. She may spotted you across the room and then frequently glance your way with or without smiling. Women are shy, they will quickly look away if she notices you see her. In this case, the next time you catch her watching you, smile to her, followed by walking up to her and introduce yourself.
Women also flirt through smiling. This is a sign that she is willing in meeting you. Some women smile merely as a means of being polite, it is important to know which type of smile means flirtation. A closed mouth smile is likely just her being friendly, whereas a smile showing teeth, along with twinkle in her eyes probably means she is interested
If you are not paying close enough attention, a woman may go out of her way to make sure you notice her. Example, if in a nightclub, you may notice that she makes several trips to the bar or restroom just so she has a reason to walk near or by your table. If at a coffee shop, she may decide she needs to add creamer or sugar to her coffee on more than one occasion. Pay attention to these actions and as she passes by, smile.
Sometimes, women will also play with their hair, which is done both intentionally and unintentionally. In this case, you might see a woman twirling her hair with her finger, rubbing the back of her neck and then gently flipping her hair, and so on. This too is a definite sign of flirtation, her trying to get your attention while letting you know that she is interested in you.
Of course, body language is a huge indicator of flirtation. A woman may cross her leg toward you, allowing her dress to hike up slightly while exposing her leg. She may also twist her hair and pull it up, thus exposing her neck, which is considered very seductive. Other forms of body language include crossing her arms, which automatically creates more cleavage, rubbing her feet, etc.
Flirtation can be deceiving so typically men will sit back and watch for a while before making a move. Just remember, if you misread a sign as flirtation when it was not, learn from the mistake so you will be able to identify flirtation better in the next woman. Most importantly, pay attention to the details and once you are sure a woman is flirting, make the move to introduce yourself.
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| posted by Bedabs @ 6:00 PM |
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| Nov 7, 2008 |
| Dating Advice for Older Men |
 We age this happens to the best of us. Divorce rates right now is so high, this means older men in the market right now had their number risen. Then when you consider that men are living longer and the challenge becomes greater. The prospect of getting back out into the dating game is frightening for most of older men. Not only have time changed but also there is the competition with younger men. As you will find out older men can have exciting and successful dating lives
First for starters, you need to believe in yourself. The fact is that most women of all ages appreciate a mature man so never allow your age to stand in your way. Usually, an older man knows how to behave in a courteous fashion, treating a woman like a lady. Some women still go for the bad boy type but in today’s world, there are more and more women realize that an older man can offer love, support and a little spoiling.
Make yourself interesting and attractive. This means being humorous, adventurous, fun and willing to try new things. Always keep in mind, the broader the audience the better the chance of meeting someone to date. It might be worth it even if you have to step outside your comfort zone. You might consider getting involved with an outdoor enthusiast club or simply doing something that appeals to a lot of people but also something you might enjoy.
Also, keep in mind that you can have a young attitude and heart without being 60 trying to act as if you were 20. Older man trying to be too young is something that women of every age generally find unattractive. In other words take it easy on the tight jeans and hip jewelry longer hair and sports car are fine but again, keep it real.
Remind yourself that you have a huge advantage over younger men – you are emotionally and financial stable. Now, as an older man entering the dating world, you need to consider the type of woman you are really, interested in since chances are, some women will like you for the material things you can offer and nothing more. Therefore, if you want to be someone’s sugar daddy, that is perfectly fine but be realistic with yourself if this is all you want or if you want more.
Dating women from other generations is done and in fact, it is a growing trend. However, typically people with such a huge age difference have little substance in common. For this reason, if a lifetime soul mate is most important to you, then we recommend you stick with someone closer to your age.
Being older does not mean less opportunity, just different opportunity. You are now wiser, which allows you to use that developed wisdom to your advantage. When you were younger, chances are a woman’s outward appearance was the most important factor. While looks may still be important, you have discovered that the inside is just as vital. Again, be realistic about dating and do not be afraid to expand your territory.
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| posted by Bedabs @ 6:49 PM |
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| Nov 1, 2008 |
| Romantic Places to take Single Women on a First Date |
 Letting single women impress on your first date and make her fall for you, take her on a unique date she will never forget. Be unique and creative, you’ll stand out among the other guys she’s dated and she will want to be with you again and again. Keep taking a single woman you are attracted to on one fun and creative date after another and she’s bound to fall for you. Top places on the check list: Cruises If there are any cruises in you’re area like yacht cruises, sunset cruises, dinner cruises or any kind of cruise don’t pass up the opportunity for one of the best ways to impress single women. Picnics Go to a place for a romantic picnic. Just bring a bottle of wine, cheese and crackers or even better jus pick up some friend chicken and potato salad. Zoo Enjoyable and a popular way to spend the day on a date. Theater Larger towns offer live theater performances this is also a romantic and unforgettable moment for single women on a first date. Amusement Parks Will, this really makes for a fun date, especially if you both enjoy thrill seeking rides such as roller coaster, hunted house, fun house etc. Best of all don’t forget to try and win her a teddy bear. Dinner at your place Make your date feel special. Invite a date over for a candlelight steak dinner and champagne, you do the cooking this will impress a woman. Romantic Restaurants If you want a good impression on your date, take her to a cozy and romantic restaurant in town. It’s better if they have a piano bar or live entertainment or soft music, dim lighting, roaring fireplaces, scenic views. Labels: dating places, dating tips, romantic date |
| posted by Bedabs @ 5:11 AM |
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